23/05/2024
See enh, There are always signs that shows you are getting into the wrong marriage. Many people see these signs but overlook them in the name of love, "he or she will change", marriage will settle it or whatever. These signs came to many divorced couples in their relationships before they even got married.
"Their should be no mercy" on nonsens€ before marriage. What do i mean? you need to trash out all your inconveniences with your partner before marriage. Their should be nothing like managing, you cannot manage anyone, it’s going to drain you. Make sure you are very okay with your partner before you marry. Dont assume anything, verify till you have peace of mind. Marriage is to d€ath do you part, not dating. Forever is a very long time to be unhappy my dear.
I will like to tell you some signs that shows you are getting into the wrong marriage.
1) ANGER: Some may say, I am nice, helpful, good, obedient, but can be hot-tempered. My brothers and my sisters, if you are dating someone and upon provocation the person smashes a bottle of glass or breaks an object, be very careful in such relationships. Sometimes, these people could demonstrate such anger and later beg for forgiveness. But my brothers and sisters, if they kpai you in the process, "they will still apologize to your corps€". Whoever has hot-temper should tell God to deal with it before he or she marries.
2) IGNORING YOUR PEACE OF MIND: Some ladies saw this sign but still jumped into marriage. They had this restlessness, but still waved it and forcefully silenced their minds and conscience with other reasons like "he is still nice though", "he is prayerful", "he is a church leader", or whatever reason it may be. If you are loosing peace about someone you wanna marry, dont marry yet. There are so many m@d people with fine clothes on the street.
3) YOU DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE CONFIDING IN THEM: When you have something really important to say to them, you never know whether they would answer politely or helpfully.
4) YOU NEVER FEEL LIKE YOURE “GOOD ENOUGH “
If your partner never has anything nice to say, you might be dating the wrong person. No matter how hard you try, you feel like you can’t do anything right. No matter how much you do, you feel like you always have to prove yourself. No matter how much you love them, you feel like they don’t return the feeling.
5)YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE NOT YOURSELF: Do you feel like you have to wear a mask when your with them, like you can't be your self. Relationships should be fun!... Not an Obligation.
Don’t just rush into marriage because you think you’re getting old, Don’t just marry because your friends are getting married and you are doing ashebi every Saturday. Don’t dive into it because you hear it is sweet or your parents are pressuring you to.
Find someone who treats you like you need to be treated and makes you happy. Someone who makes you feel good about yourself. Don’t ever ignored those red signs!
