21/03/2026
"My heart is heavy, I'm done keeping quiet! My husband is gone, and I am sure his village people are responsible 😭😭
He was a good man who worked hard in South Korea for six years. He sent every kobo to me, and I used it well. I didn't waste his money on gold or expensive clothes. I stayed in the sun selling tomatoes so I could build the big house we live in today. I built two rental houses and started a fine shop for our children's future. But eight months ago, everything changed. My husband went to the village to see his uncles, the same ones who stole his father's land when he was a small boy. He went there with a clean heart, opened for forgiveness but he came back with a strange sickness. In four days, my strong husband was gone 😭😭😭
The worse part,,, Now, the burial is over, but the "mourners" refuse to go home. For six months now, my house has become a free hotel. It started with one uncle, but now they are 9 full grown adults in this house. They brought their wives, their grown-up children, and even their grandchildren. They sit under my mango tree from morning till night, eating my food and talking. They don't buy water, they don't buy fuel for the generator, and they don't buy food.
Every day I go to my shop to hustle, and every evening I come back to see more strangers in my parlor. My kids are now sleeping in one small room like goats, while the uncles are stretching their legs in my guest rooms. Yesterday, I saw a young girl from the village opening my baby's expensive milk. She was pouring it into a cup to drink as tea. When I shouted, she didn't even sorry. She told me to shut up, that the money used to buy the milk belongs to her "brother," so the milk belongs to the whole family. I went to report to the eldest uncle, but he didn't even look at me.
He told me that I am just a wife and I don't have any power. He told me that if I keep complaining about food, they will call a family meeting to take the house and the shops from me. He said a woman who cannot feed her husband's family is not a good wife.. My savings are almost getting finished. I am working just to buy bags of rice and pay electricity bills for people who hate me. They are waiting for me to get tired and run away so they can take everything my husband and I worked for 😭😭
I am tired. I am crying every night. My husband is not even cold in his grave yet, and his people are already dividing my life like shared meat. Honestly I've had enough. Now, If should chase them out, the whole village will say I'm reSponsible for my husband's dth. Seriously, My heart is heavy 😭😭"