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08/11/2022

Giving up is not an option.

02/11/2022

Saving thus here

02/11/2022

Exactly 10am tomorrow morning, someone will support you financially! AFFIRM YES

15/10/2022

God, you know our heart desires, please grant them.🙏

15/10/2022

Nnamdi was a successful trader and importer who imported various items from China and was based at the Lagos trade fair.

He met his wife when he was younger, and the marriage was blessed with three kids.

When their marriage was relatively younger, he asked the wife what she would want to do since he did not want her to be a full-time house wife.

The wife mentioned that she would like to own a school since she read education at university.

Nnamdi bought two plots of land in Festsc and then built a state-of-the-art school, free of charge, which he handed over to his wife upon completion.

The new school grew in leaps and bounds and was the favorite of the middle class parents in Festac and Amuwo-Odofin.

Parents pay up to 250K per term for their children to attend this elitist school.

Nnamdi’s importation business, on the other hand, was flourishing and moving well, and he did not have any reason to ask the wife for help till Covid struck.

COVID brought about the devaluation of our local currency which made his working capital useless , which hit Nnamdi’s business since China was the epic center of the outbreak.

China later closed their border to contain the virus, and before the announcement came, Nnamdi had transferred over $5 million to his Chinese partners.

He was stuck when China closed their border.

He could not get his money back nor the goods equivalent.

Not knowing what else to do, he remembered his wife, who was running an online class for her students who were at home.

He asked the wife to lend him 30 million from their working capital so he could use it to import another set items from Bangladesh pending when China opens their border.

The woman told him with a straight face that she did not have that kind of money and so couldn’t help.

Convinced in his mind that the wife was lying and did not want to help, he reached out to her account officer, managing the wife's school account domiciled with the bank, requesting statements of the account of the school.

He was the one who opened the account for the wife, though he did not receive an alert because the wife removed his number from the account.

Nnamdi was left speechless when the account office reverted back to him.

The wife had 180 million naira, untouched, in her account with the bank.

Nnamdi could not believe his eyes.

He went to the bank to be sure that the account officer was sure of what she sent. The bank manager confirmed the same thing.

That his wife has a 180 million naira, at her school account with the bank.

Disappointed by the new information, Nnamdi confronted the wife about the money in her account.

The woman, instead of being remorseful, was angry that the husband went that far.

Does it mean that he does not trust her again?

The educationist fumed.

The matter escalated when Nnamdi, who was feeling betrayed that the wife of his youth, the woman he built up with his sweat and blood backstabbed him, requested that the wife should leave his house that night.

The woman did not think twice about packing her things and leaving.

Nnamdi was later told by the wife's driver that she had moved to a rented duplex and with a shocker.

She moved in with her younger lover, whom she loves so much.

Marriage of 20 years in the mud.

The couple are in court at the moment for two things

1) divorce from their 20-year marriage because it has irreparably broken down.

2) Who owns the building where the school is located?

The matter is in court and this story, narrated to me by Nnamdi himself with his permission to share, reminds me that sometimes, some of us do not marry out of love for our partner.

They marry whoever is available and rich enough to pay their bills.

Marriage is a business transaction, as a mean to an end and not that I love this person.

And no matter how hard they try to hide it, the crack in the union shows the faulty foundation as the couple grows older.

It is terrible!

My prayer is this: may we not end up with unfortunate partners like this.

God abeg ooooo.

Chukwudi Iwuchukwu

15/10/2022

FIVE THINGS YOU WILL SURELY FIGHT ABOUT IN MARRIAGE.

Don't stress it too much beloved, disagreements will come, little tiny quarrels, very unnecessary misunderstandings, swingy moody fights, some
that actually do make sense, and some that... don’t really make any sense at all, still we will fight over them in marriage anyway, it's all a part of the journey.

These are five things you will surely fight about in your marriage. I'm sharing this to prepare your heart to be open about them, not to expect them
really, but to be relaxed when they come, knowing that you already have an action plan to work through these tiny issues like the powerful believer that you are.

1. You're constantly pointing fingers:
You will find yourselves blaming each other for who ruined the vacation or whose fault it was that you were late for the dinner party.

Bae will take too long with her makeup, she can't help it so just relax uncle.

Boo will grumble and procrastinate before getting ready, he can't help it too. But you both have to keep maturing by learning to take more responsibility for your actions, rather than dumping your
responsibilities on your partner.

2. You grumble over chores:
We all have these fights; You feel like your partner never does the dishes, or he's constantly leaving the toilet seat up.

As you probably guessed, it's never really just about that domestic dispute. It may look like dirty socks on the
floor, but you're feeling like the other person isn't appreciating your contributions at all. This will happen, but when it does, do not try to get dominance over your partner. Instead of fighting over socks, talk about needing to feel valued and ask for help with chores around the house. The goal is to become a better team, not better opponents.

3. You're hiding shopping bags, I mean, money:
Even if you graduated from Harvard with a first class in money managment, my dear you will argue about money. Why? Because we all have different ways we like to spend our money.

Sometimes you may even hide to buy stuff for yourself because your partner doesnt want the money spent that way but he or she won't understand that you have a need for that stuff. Other times you will secretly send money home, or bail your siblings out of a financial fix on a lowkey. The secret? Be on the same page on budgeting. If you and your partner are on the same page about budgeting, It will help so much in preventing the money fights and arguments.

4. You try to ignore problems — but vent your anger in other ways.:
Giving your partner the silent treatment and keeping frustration pent up inside isn't going to fix whatever is bothering you. These fights are really unhealthy, it is like indirectly letting your partner know that you don’t care how they feel, if they are hurt, or what happens. If you're not willing to let this stuff out and talk about it, then please do not transfer aggression on something else your partner does.

Don’t scream about his dirty socks when actually you have been angry about the fact that he came home late yesterday. Talk about today’s problems today, be angry about today’s hurts today. Then please move on, thank you.

5. You have different s*x-pectations:
There will be times when one partner will associate s*x with a time to be held, cuddled, and feel affection. At other times, one partner will be feeling already close and s*x to that partner is not a way to feel any closer, because to him or her, you are already close, when all the while all the other partner needs to feel close to you is s*x.

Prepare for these different seasons guys, be prepared to
meet too many needs with s*x in your marriage. Do not keep the other guessing what s*x needs you are craving for at the moment, always communicate your feelings like best friends.

13/10/2022

Read this... Because your mind is pure this early morning.

If what you seek still eludes you, then you should accept whatever comes to you...

Perhaps in life, every form is but an illusion, life, d3ad, reunion and parting, love, häte, joy and sadness.

They are all kleshas and uncertainties...

In life true fulfilment is to do what you want to do for the rest of your life.

12/10/2022

I LOVE YOU ALL

12/10/2022

Affording iPhone 14 is very simple, just that you don't know how to go about it.

Getting iPhone 14 the price is 1469€ that's 1,028,790 nairas.

If your salary is 50k naira a month, it will take you 2 years to buy this iPhone 14, that's to say, you won't use anything from that 50k salary.

To you, that's a sale girl or sale boy whose salary is 30k every month, it will take you 3 years and 2 months to buy the iPhone 14.

Without paying rent, eating from that same 30k, getting yourself a nice dress and looking good.

Yeah.. you read that right.

But don't worry there's an easier way you can become an iPhone 14 holder and owner while still paying rent and living well.

I know you're happy and smiling now.

Okay... You can easily become an iPhone 14 owner by getting yourself Two iPhone 7.

Yeah.

7 + 7 equals 14.

iPhone 7 + iPhone 7 = iPhone 14.

Don't let this shock you, there are the same thing.

With this, you can still pay your house rent instead of squatting with a friend while holding a 1m liability in your hand.

You can get a plot of land for 500k, in three years you will be able to sell it and get yourself more than 10 iPhones.

Holding an iPhone 14 will not make you sleep and dreams of an asset but owning land in a good location is a proud thing to dream of every time.

Buy iPhone 14 today and dumb it next year or add more money to get iPhone 15.

But buy a land today and sell it next year to recover your capital and still have 3× of your interest.

The choice is yours to make.

Just in case you still insist on getting iPhone 14, congratulation, I will also take a picture with it 🤣

12/10/2022