28/12/2022
HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF 2023.
(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
(2) Stop begging.
(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.
(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.
(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
(12) Respect your time.
(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
(15) Be scarce sometimes.
(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.
(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.
(21) buy something from a shop and leave, don't get to the point where by they calling you customer.
Customer comes with familiarity, insult might be next .
(22) becareful of people you share your problems with, if you are doing better than them , some will be happy that you are having it . You might be sharing it with the creator of your problems .
(23) stop telling people your next move or sharing your secret with people. Let it come as a surprise.
(24) learn to stay alone , plan and think .
(25) reduce some friends, too many Friends too many problems. Your enemy is a friend that is no longer in good terms with you again.
(26) what people say does not matter, it is what God says that matters, so live your life to please God and not people.
