27/05/2025
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This message will Ωffend some of you… but it just might save your future. Ladies, the last time I asked a simple question:
What if you all decided to close your l£gs… what do you think would happen?
I said it then and I’ll say it again: many of you would be married by now. And I explained why.
Cos the truth is this… most men won’t pay for what they’re already getting for free. That post is still up, and I’ll drop the link in the comments if you missed it.
Let’s talk about “Cam We Stay” for a second.
For many men in CWS, paying the bride price or doing marriage rites feels like settling a debt.
For them to do it, they need to either be motivated, pressured, or forced.
And if the woman decides to walk away, most of them won’t bother… they’ll just move on like nothing happened. You know that already.
But listen closely: if you choose to close your l£gs, yes, you’ll lose a lot… a lot of admirers, a lot of “relationships,” and a lot of men.
But those aren’t losses. Those are the wrong ones exiting your life. If marriage is what you desire, losing them is actually winning.
I don't know if I'm making sense!
So many of you are single mothers today not cos that’s what you planned, but cos you ignored advice like this.
And many more will follow that same path like the sheep you saw in the photo, still eating koki(having s3x) before marriage. Let me be clear:
Be ready to be a single mother.
Be ready never to get married.
Be ready to be used and dumped.
Be ready for ST1s.
And when it happens, please… don’t complain. You saw the signs, but you kept walking. You read my counsel but didn't consider it.
Yes, the men are rushing you. But just cos they’re chasing you doesn’t mean you must l!e down. You are not that weak, you are ly!ng down cos that's what you want.
A man who truly wants you or wants to marry you will honor your standards. Read that again and let it sink.
If you allow them to keep “tasting” you. After they taste, they’ll vanish and you’ll be left wondering why and bearing the consequences.
I know you have feelings. Conji is real, e di worry all man. But if you can’t master your desires, then prepare to suffer the results.
Self-control isn’t a male-only virtue. Even Joseph had to run from a woman who lacked it.
Cos the truth is that not every thirst deserves to be quenched.
If you don’t control your bΩdy, someone else will control your destiny.
If this post makes sense and you’d like to keep drinking from my cup of wisdom, go ahead and 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐞. Sh△re the post as well… someone on your timeline may need it more than you know.
I remain your noble relationship coach and marriage therapist Courage Sorbe aka Wisdom Bank. 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫.
This message will Ωffend some of you… but it just might save your future. Ladies, the last time I asked a simple question:
What if you all decided to close your l£gs… what do you think would happen?
I said it then and I’ll say it again: many of you would be married by now. And I explained why.
Cos the truth is this… most men won’t pay for what they’re already getting for free. That post is still up, and I’ll drop the link in the comments if you missed it.
Let’s talk about “Cam We Stay” for a second.
For many men in CWS, paying the bride price or doing marriage rites feels like settling a debt.
For them to do it, they need to either be motivated, pressured, or forced.
And if the woman decides to walk away, most of them won’t bother… they’ll just move on like nothing happened. You know that already.
But listen closely: if you choose to close your l£gs, yes, you’ll lose a lot… a lot of admirers, a lot of “relationships,” and a lot of men.
But those aren’t losses. Those are the wrong ones exiting your life. If marriage is what you desire, losing them is actually winning.
I don't know if I'm making sense!
So many of you are single mothers today not cos that’s what you planned, but cos you ignored advice like this.
And many more will follow that same path like the sheep you saw in the photo, still eating koki(having s3x) before marriage. Let me be clear:
Be ready to be a single mother.
Be ready never to get married.
Be ready to be used and dumped.
Be ready for ST1s.
And when it happens, please… don’t complain. You saw the signs, but you kept walking. You read my counsel but didn't consider it.
Yes, the men are rushing you. But just cos they’re chasing you doesn’t mean you must l!e down. You are not that weak, you are ly!ng down cos that's what you want.
A man who truly wants you or wants to marry you will honor your standards. Read that again and let it sink.
If you allow them to keep “tasting” you. After they taste, they’ll vanish and you’ll be left wondering why and bearing the consequences.
I know you have feelings. Conji is real, e di worry all man. But if you can’t master your desires, then prepare to suffer the results.
Self-control isn’t a male-only virtue. Even Joseph had to run from a woman who lacked it.
Cos the truth is that not every thirst deserves to be quenched.
If you don’t control your bΩdy, someone else will control your destiny.
If this post makes sense and you’d like to keep drinking from my cup of wisdom, go ahead and 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐞. Sh△re the post as well… someone on your timeline may need it more than you know.
I remain your noble relationship coach and marriage therapist Courage Sorbe aka Wisdom Bank. 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫.
