23/05/2024
Plz I have a serious issue right now in my marriage and I need advice bcux am at the crossroad of my life, I got married to my husband at age 20, he had almost nothing, there is no bussiness av not done inorder to support him, av fried buns, av sold suya beans on the street, av stood at the main road not minding the shame and sold slippers bcux when he was outside Lagos doing bussiness, he hardly sends money, not because he don't have oo but he's just a very difficult person when it comes to money, that is why I always look for different bussiness's to do in order to fend for my self and Children, suddenly 3 years ago God decided to show me mercy and I started a good bussiness, meanwhile this man is a mean and addicted Womaniser when we got married newly, he likes se.x like it's food, a night I don't give him se.x it will be like he wants to d*ie, and me I usually try my best and I tell him sometimes to leave me to rest bcux everynight was something my strength cannot carry, but I try my best sha, even when I give birth he wount allow me rest, 2 weeks or highest 1 month he have started disturbing me for se.x without minding if am healed or not, he chase everything on skirt, even my sister's he have made advances at them, the last time I caught him touching my young sister while she was asleep, if I talk too much he will beat me join, he always deny his marriage whenever he gets a new girlfriend, I will be warning him of diseases and he will say he's a strong man, nothing will happen to him, I can't count how many times av treated infections with my money, if I'd known I would have left this marriage earlier, but he also have his own good quality bcux am really not here to lie against him, I want to be as transparent as possible so that I can get the right advice, now fast forward to 3 years ago, I started my own bussiness, after 1 year we bought a house which I contributed 50% of the money to buy the house, the house was not in a very good condition, we spent extra 3milion to put the house in place , of which am the one that brought 2m, infact God have been faithful to me, I noticed his bussiness in outside Lagos wasnt moving too well, I called him and gave him 2.3 million naira to start a bussiness and to also stay with us bcux the news I hear of his Womanizing nature when he was outside state always gets me scared for both my health and his health, so I needed him to come back and stay around his family, to be honest in all sincerity, my husband have started changing, he's more matured now, hardly goes out, more caring I don't know if it's bcux I have money Dan him or its just maturity but no matter the case I was beginning to enjoy my marriage after 10 years, last year 2022 he became si*ck, he was always very si*ck, he will treat malaria more dan 10 times in a month, I was even scared I told him to go for h.i.v test, he went and it came out negative but the sickness persisted, and he went to a higher hospital unknown to me and did series of test, my mother's in the house my husband tested positive to H.i.v and he didn't tell me, he started taking his drugs when I ask him wat the drugs was for , he said it's for cough, I didn't doubt him, he was still having se.x with me oo, until last month I started stooling blood uncontrollably, and I went to test and I also tested positive to h.i.v that day I nearly took pois.on it was as if my life left me, I saw all av built crumble before me, I cried like never before, all through our marriage av been faithful, even when the going was rough I kept my faith, how can I wake up one morning and this man will do this inhuman act to me, am not even upto 30🤦♀️ they said I should start taking drugs and the worst is that the drugs is for a life time, so my life is going to depend on drugs at 29 years? Bcux of the carelessness from the man I called my husband, after all the Support av given to him as a wife,
I confronted him about his status and he started begging me and he's been beging me for over 2 months now, but the issue now is that this is the height of wic*kedness, I confided in a friend and he took me to Zion we've been praying, by Gods grace the stooling of blood stopped the very day I stepped into zion, and since den av been praying, I don't pray when I have malaria and typhoid or infection I simply go to hospital and get treatment, but this one that came now is more dan me, av been paying to God to heal me bcux this is not the reward I deserve from God and man after been faithful and supportive to my husband, now av developed a stern h*atred for him, his sight irritates me, am even scared for my self with the level of hatred I have for him, talking to him alone makes me feel angry and bitter, he will always come to me at night and kneel down begging me to forgive him, my problem is not even forgiveness. my problem is after forgiving him, will i still be able to look at him and be proud to call him my husband? honestly looking at him irritates me, i just feel like k*illing him and ki*ll myself, Please i need advice i want to move out of the house and out of this marriage cause am tired! i bought land last month in my name and he's afraid, thinking that i will leave him because other things i use to buy, i bought in in our name.
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