03/06/2026
Last week, for the first time since moving to Germany, I found myself seriously sick and completely alone.
Not the kind of sickness where you drink tea and sleep it off.
The kind where getting out of bed feels like a task, every step hurts, and yet you still have to take care of yourself because there is nobody else to do it.
I had to put on my winter jacket while shivering with fever and rush to the hospital before they closed. Then came the bus rides, the pharmacy, the grocery shopping and trying to survive on my own.
Back home in Nigeria, sickness rarely feels this lonely. There is usually someone checking on you, bringing food, or simply sitting beside you.
Living abroad teaches you many things. Last week, it taught me resilience.
But it also taught me something unexpected.
For the first time, I understood why so many people love their pets so deeply.
Sometimes companionship is not about solving problems. Sometimes it is simply about having a loyal presence beside you when life feels heavy.
That thought immediately brought Sushi to mind.
I missed his birthday because I was sick, but better late than never.
Happy Birthday, Sushi. 🐾
Thank you for reminding me that loyalty, comfort, and unconditional love can come in four-legged form.
To everyone building a life far from home, I see you. Some days are harder than others, but somehow we keep going.
Alhamdulillah, I am feeling much better now.
🐾❤️
fansRita Mamuyowui
