11/10/2025
Our Faces in the Mirrors
By Qayss Ramli
Don’t you agree?
Your past did not bear the features of who you are today,
and it never crossed your mind that one day, after many years,
you would find yourself gazing at these words through a small screen,
strapped to your wrist — as if it were a prophecy from the future.
You used to fear the unknown,
to hide your anxiety about a tomorrow that hadn’t yet arrived,
without realizing that what you feared was patiently waiting for you,
and that your steps had been leading you toward it all along,
without your awareness.
Look now — see where the path has brought you.
Who guided you to this very place you stand in?
Was it life that steered you,
or were you simply following your intuition —
those slow, deliberate steps with which you unknowingly shaped your destiny?
This journey is not one we plan;
it plans us.
It places us in stations we never dreamed of reaching,
and reveals to us versions of ourselves we never knew existed.
Tomorrow morning,
when you stand before the mirror,
look closely at the person facing you.
Study his eyes carefully and ask him:
Who are you now?
How much of what you see is truly you,
and how much has been sculpted by life —
through its joys and its wounds,
its quiet losses that left invisible marks upon your soul?
Life has changed us more than we ever imagined.
It has altered how we see things,
reshuffled our priorities,
and stripped away our naive innocence —
only to gift us something greater:
something called understanding —
though it often comes blended with disappointment.
Now, perhaps you hold a fragment of truth —
never the whole of it,
for absolute truth is granted to no one.
But it is enough to recognize
that you are no longer who you were,
and that tomorrow,
you will not be who you are today.
Each day reshapes you slowly,
like a river carving its path through stone —
in silence and patience.
And with the passing of years,
you will once again stand before the mirror
and see someone smiling back at you —
someone you don’t entirely recognize,
yet who somehow still resembles you.
Perhaps that reflection
is what remains of you —
or perhaps it is
who you were always meant to become.