20/12/2024
HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE
1. Cover each other's weaknesses
2. Celebrate each other's strengths
3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions
4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution
5. Be 100% in. Full commitment
6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection
7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, where can we improve?
8. Accept correction, be humble
9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, best husband
10. Have joint goals
11. Support each other in your individual goals
12. Keep each other as priority even as you have friends
13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple
14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other
15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together
16. Be patient. Some wins take time
17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up
18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast
19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger
20. Don't copy other couples. Create your own testimonies
