Muhammed Itopa Siyaka

20/04/2023

Ramadan Kareem. May Allah accept all our Ibad'at Ameen

26/10/2020

*"He is not my type, he is not my type".*
*Ok no problem but the real question is, does your type want you?* *Are you your type's type?*

07/03/2020

“Power properly understood is nothing but the ability to achieve purpose. It is the strength required to bring about social, political and economic change. … What is needed is a realization that power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic. Power at its best is love implementing the demands of justice, and justice at its best is power correcting everything that stands against love.”

~Martin Luther King, Jr.

27/09/2019

Good morning the great people. I am back on my page. Be expecting my update from now on here.

04/06/2018

https://misreportersnetwork.wordpress.com/2018/06/03/okehi-constituency-aspirant-declares-war-on-one-sided-developmental-representative-in-okehi/

The President of Ebira Vonya International (EVI) and candidate aspiring for Kogi State House of Assembly Okehi Constituency come 2019, Hon. Muhammad Itopa Siyaka has described the one sided develop…

03/06/2018

The President of Ebira Vonya International (EVI) and candidate aspiring for Kogi State House of Assembly Okehi Constituency come 2019, Hon. Muhammad Itopa Siyaka has described the one sided develop…

10/08/2017

TEN POINTS FOR THE FIRST
TEN DAYS OF DHUL→HIJJAH
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1.→The first ten days are actually nine days with the addition of the day of Eid. It is called the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah, but only nine of it is for fasting as the tenth day is the beginning of Eid. It is impermissible to fast on the day of Eid, this is a consensus amongst the people of knowledge.

2.→工t is permissible to fast the first nine days of Dhul-Hijjah with the last day being the day of Arafah for those not doing Hajj. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said in a Hadīth narrated by ibn Abbās رضي الله عنهما (in at-Tirmīdhi):

“There are not any days that good deeds are more beloved to Allāh than those done in these ten days.”

3.→工n these days, it is recommended that there is a lot of remembrance of Allaah (سبحان و تعالى) - this is for all of the ten days.

4.→工n these days, it is recommended that one makes Takbîyr of Allāh (saying Allāhu-Akbar) - this is for all of the ten days.

5.→工n these days, it is recommended to read the Qur'ān as much as possible and give charity - this is for all of the ten days.

6.→The ninth day is the day of Arafah. The Messenger of Allāh (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said in an authentic narration:

“Verily on the day of Arafah there is expiation of sins for the year before and the year after.”

(Abī Qatāda (رضي الله عنه), reported in Sahīh Muslim and At-Tirmīdhi).

So therefore it is a great day, so it is recommended to fast that day for those not doing Hajj. Fasting is only permissible for the first nine days as the tenth day is the day of Eid.

7.→Allāh (تعالى) Said:

(لِيَشْهَدُوا مَنَافِعَ لَهُمْ وَيَذْكُرُوا اسْمَ اللَّهِ فِي أَيَّامٍ مَّعْلُومَاتٍ عَلَى مَا رَزَقَهُم مِّن بَهِيمَةِ الْأَنْعَامِ فَكُلُوا مِنْهَا وَأَطْعِمُوا الْبَائِسَ الْفَقِيرَ)

“That they may witness things that are of benefit to them (i.e. reward of Hajj in the Hereafter, and also some worldly gain from trade), and mention the name of Allāh on appointed days (i.e. 10th, 11th, 12th, and 13th of Dhul-Hijjah), over the beast of cattle that He has provided for them (for sacrifice). (Sūrah al-Hajj 22:28).

工bn Abbās (رضي الله عنهما) Said:

“The appointed days are the days of Arafah (9th), an-Nahr (10th) and the days of Tashrîyq (11th, 12th and 13th ).

8.→Whoever wishes to slaughter in these days it is not allowed to cut or remove any hair from his body or his nails, but this does not apply to his family, only the head of the family who is doing the slaughtering.

9.→The ruling regards to slaughtering:

A.→An individual who slaughters from his own wealth on behalf of himself and his family - It is not permissible for this individual to shave any hair from his body, remove any part of his skin or cut his nails.

B.→An individual who slaughters from his own wealth for others e.g. he wishes to slaughter for his father or his mother - He too must not cut his hair, take from his skin or cut his nails.

C.→Anybody who wishes to slaughter with someone else's wealth, for somebody else, e.g. He has been entrusted by someone else to slaughter cattle for him - This individual is allowed to cut his hair, nails and skin etc.

10.→Eid Al-Adha is four days in total: the tenth (the day of Eid prayer) and the days of tashrîyq (the eleventh, twelve and thirteenth days of Dhul-Hijjah). It is impermissible to fast in these days for those not performing the Hajj.

The Messenger of Allāh (صلى الله عليه و سلم) Said:

“The days of Tashrîyq are days for eating, drinking and remembering Allāh (عز و جل)” (Abī al-Malîyh (رضي الله عنه),reported in Sahīh Al-Muslim).

Allāh (سبحان و تعالى) Said:

"And remember Allāh during the appointed Days." (Al-Baqarah 2:203).

(Taken from the works of Al-Imām Al-Baghāwī, Al-Alāmah bin Bāz and Al-Alāmah Ibn Uthaymīyn, may Allāh have mercy on them all and all the scholars of the Sunnah.)

匚ompiled By Abū Abdur-Rahmān Taweel.

16/01/2016

31/10/2015

SECOND WIFE?!!
The words reverberated through my brain. Why?
Am I not good enough? Never! I will never accept a second wife! If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back!
Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. It was a woman recently divorced, 4 children. She is having a hard time, he said, she doesn't know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. "Where is their father?" I asked, "Can't he take care of his own kids?
Why do you a strange man have to carry another man's burden? Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her!
I could not imagine myself in a plural marriage.
Sharing my husband with another woman.
Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I could not fathom him holding her close and whispering loving words in her ears. It was unacceptable. An outrage. After all I have been to him. Wife, lover, mother, doctor, housekeeper. I raised 3 of his beautiful children.
How can he insult me by marrying another
woman as if I am not good enough. Not pretty enough. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH! NO!
I could not accept that and I vehemently made my stance clear to him. If she walks in, I walk out! Plain and simple. If he is willing to risk our marriage, our life, our children for another woman, then he must go ahead. I will not stand for it!
It all seems so many years ago now. When I thought that life would last forever and that nothing will ever change. But it did..
My husband did not get married to a second wife.
After all my warnings and threats of leaving he abandoned the idea. I don't know what happened to the women and children. My guess is that they moved on to another town.
He never mentioned a second wife again and I was happy with that. I managed to hang on to my husband but I didn't know that our time was running out.
His last words to me were that he had a
headache and is going to lie down till Eshai. He never read Eshai namaaz that night, because he never woke up.
I was devastated by his sudden death. The man whom I have spent my life with, snatched a way from me in a second. I mourned him for a long, long time. Neglecting my children and the business. Soon all went to waste and we started losing everything one by one. First the car then the shop, then the house.
We moved in with my brother and his family. My 3 children and I crowded the house and my sister in law soon became annoyed by our presence. I needed to get out, to work and find a place of our own instead of living off the leftovers of
others. But I had no skill.
When my husband was alive we lived
comfortably. I had no need to go out and work or or equip myself with a skill. Life was very difficult for me and my children and I wasn't young anymore. I missed him everyday with every beat of my heart. How could ones condition change so drastically?
One day my brother told me that someone he knew is looking for a wife. He was a good person, good akhlaq and very pious. Perfect for me, but he wants me to be his second wife. It's the second time in my life that the word second wife was mentioned to me. But how different the circumstances. He came to my brothers house to see me. There was an immediate connection between us. I liked him and I liked everything about him.
He told me that his first wife knows that he is intending to marry again but that she is obviously not supportive of the idea and that he doesn't know what her reaction will be when he tells her that he had found someone. His answer he said, will be dependent on her acceptance of Polygamy.
I started reading Istikhara that night. I so
desperately wanted it to work out. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was.
I felt contrite, I felt that because I did not give another woman a chance, a space in my life, that Allah will punish me this time around. I repented, not once in my life did I think my action worthy of repentance because I had done nothing wrong. I only protected what was mine.
Now that I am on the receiving end, I realized how wrong I was in denying another woman this PRIVILEGE of a husband. I prayed that she will accept me.
He phoned me a few days later telling me that his wife is having a hard time accepting it but that she is willing to meet me. I was nervous the day of the meeting. I prayed a lot the day before and asked Allah to help me.
When I met her, she was a person, a woman like me . A woman who loves her husband and fears losing him. She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: " This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters" her words broke my heart.
All I needed in these dark days was a hand reaching out to me and embracing me, giving me hope and the will to carry on. His wife was to me, the woman that I could not be and I will be forever grateful for that.
I thought that no one could love her husband the way I loved mine, but she taught me the true meaning of unconditional love.

26/02/2014

BABY A BLESSING;

Baby is the blessing of Allah. That HE blessed those who HE wishes to be blessed without any query from anyone. Some are looking for even a child without any, while some call children a burden and never wanted to have any. And some choose the right time to have them and it comes to them while some keep on aborting and still, later be blessed with many children. Is all Allah wish.

Some of those who re in need of children walked heaven and earth seeking for the blessing without any from Allah. While some are blessed with the blessing and called it unwanted child finding a way to abort it.

Some of those seeking for the blessing were later been blessed with children after the long awaited time while some still remain barren till end of their life.

To those who never seek much and have the blessing should be more appreciative and trained the children to the right way, the way of Allah. For they don't know the benefit much than those who are still seeking for the blessing. And nothing make them more qualified to have the children than those seeking for it.

May Allah bless those who have children with abundant resources to be able to train them to Allah's way. May Allah bless the seekers and bless them with children which they will called theirs till end of their life.

For those Aborter's, may Allah forgive them and turn them to HIS way of fearing Allah. Because, hadn't been they know the blessing, either they got it by wrong way or not, they will keep the pregnancy, nurture the pregnancy till delivery period and equally trained the child well.

I used this medium to beg Allah to grant each and everyone with the best of their heart desire and make every women and men, a mother and a father Ameen.