17/06/2025
Popular single father opens up on the reasons for his separation from wife. She abandoned him to raise their three children alone.
Samy 🗣️
"We generally had problems on several fronts. The first was the phone she used. She used to set a code. She set a code all the time, every moment. And even when she used her phone in my presence, she had this habit of always hiding it, interrupting conversations, or whispering into the phone.
Secondly, I had invited her to help me manage the house. As they say, a woman is a help to a man. So I told her, 'Here are the household expenses, I'd like you to contribute in your own way.' Choosing to pay for the water is a good thing. Saying you'll pay for the electricity is a good thing too. In short, I simply wanted her to have some input, so that everything wouldn't fall solely on me." But she flatly refused. She said it wasn't her job to do that, that it wasn't her role, and that she didn't have to.
Thirdly, and even fourthly, there was a deep disagreement about the children. Today, I'm the one who takes the trouble to take care of the children, and I do it naturally.
But I don't understand why I'm with a woman at home who's always on her phone, without ever really taking care of the children.
You see, when the children scream or play loudly, I'm the one who gets up to see what's wrong. When, normally, it's her job to do that too. But every time, I'm the one who has to leave work to run after the children. And she sits there, phone in hand, over and over again. Frankly, it's difficult.
It's this kind of thing that always caused arguments between us. That evening again, we argued. She insulted me, and I responded by throwing her back at her. She couldn't stand it. And the next morning, to my great surprise, she was already gone.
She had taken all her things without saying anything to me. I only realized it later, when I wanted to get something. I noticed her personal belongings were gone. I tried calling her two days later, but I realized she had blocked me. I contacted her family, but no one wanted to talk.
Yet these are valid reasons in my eyes. And meanwhile, there's a child, a newborn, who finds herself in very difficult circumstances, barely three months old. And yet, she, the mother, has been gone for five months. She abandoned her child like that, just because someone else promised her the earth elsewhere.
I can't build a relationship on that basis. I don't believe in that. And she showed me that clearly. Honestly, she had an attitude that I found very suspicious. It was difficult for me to trust her."
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