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AndesAccademia, Purok 2 turagwis, Legazpi (2026)

17/12/2025

Nilalait ka ba ng mga kamag-anak mo?

Yung hindi diretsahan.
Yung patalikod.
Yung dinadaan sa biro para kunwari harmless.
Pero ramdam mo.
Alam mo kung ano yung ibig nilang sabihin.

“Wala ka pa ring nararating.”
“Hanggang dyan ka na lang ba?”
“Sayang ka.”

They smile in front of you,
pero sa likod mo,
ginagawa kang punchline ng kwento nila.

Masakit.
Hindi dahil totoo yung sinasabi nila,
kundi dahil pamilya mo sila.
At kapag pamilya ang nanlait,
ibang klaseng bigat yun.

Ang mas masakit pa,
minsan pinaniniwalaan mo na rin.

You start questioning yourself.
Your pace.
Your journey.
Your worth.

Pero eto yung kailangan mong marinig.

Hindi nila alam ang buong kwento mo.
Hindi nila alam yung tahimik mong laban.
Yung mga gabing nagpupuyat ka.

Yung mga araw na gusto mo nang sumuko,
pero pinili mong tumayo ulit.

They judge the result,
but they never saw the process.

At eto yung tanong na hindi mo na dapat iwasan:

Hanggang kailan mo titiisin ang pang-iinsulto?
Hanggang kailan ka papayag na
sila ang magdidikta kung hanggang saan ka lang?

Kasi sa totoo lang,
people who mock your journey
usually fear their own stagnation.

Mas madali mang-insulto
kaysa aminin na ikaw ay sumusubok,
habang sila, nanonood lang.

Hindi mo kailangan makipagtalo.
Hindi mo kailangan magpaliwanag.

Ang kailangan mo lang,
umangat nang tahimik.

Doon mo ipakita.
Hindi sa salita.
Kundi sa consistency.
Sa growth.
Sa buhay na ikaw ang may kontrol.

✓ Hindi lahat ng kamag-anak, kakampi
✗ At hindi lahat ng opinyon, mahalaga

✓ Your pace is valid
✗ Hindi mo kailangang makipag-unahan

✓ Respect is earned
✗ Hindi hinihingi

Darating yung araw,
yung mga biro nila titigil.

Hindi dahil humingi sila ng tawad,
kundi dahil wala na silang masabi.

And when that day comes,
alam mong hindi ka nagtagumpay
para patunayan ang sarili mo sa kanila…

Kundi para igalang mo ang sarili mo.

Kung ready ka nang baguhin yung kwento mo
at gusto mo ng malinaw na next step,
Usap tayo. 😊

16/12/2025

Sa panahon ngayon,
hindi pwedeng puso lang ang handa,
dapat pati bulsa.

Love is good.
Faith is good.
Hope is good.

Pero sa real life, hindi sapat yung tapang lang ng puso
kapag dumating yung bagyo.

Bills don’t care about emotions.
Emergencies don’t wait for timing.
And life doesn’t send a warning
bago nito guluhin yung routine mo.

Kaya kailangan mong ihanda hindi lang feelings mo,
kundi pati finances mo.

Marami na akong nakitang ganitong kwento.

Stable ang trabaho.
Steady ang income.
May ipon kahit konti.

Tapos isang araw, may biglang announcement sa company.

Layoff.
Restructuring.
Cost-cutting.
Utang.

At yung taong hindi nag-expect,
sila yung unang natatamaan.

Mag si uwian na kayung lahat.

After two months, ubos ipon.
Next month, sabay-sabay ang bayarin.
And when they finally ask for help,
halos lahat may sariling sagot na,
“Pasensya na… tight din kami ngayon.”

Hindi dahil walang pakialam.
Pero kasi lahat may sariling laban.
Lahat may sariling bagyo.
Lahat may bills na hindi rin nila masalo.

And that’s when it becomes real:
Preparation isn’t fear.
It’s protection.

✓ Save kahit maliit
✓ Build emergency funds
✗ Huwag umasa sa “bahala na”

Faith is powerful,
pero tinuturuan ka rin ni God maging wise.
Puso ang nagtitiwala,
pero utak ang nagpo-protect.

Love your future self enough
to prepare before the storm comes.

Kung gusto mong matutunan paano ka
makakapagsimula ng extra pagkaka-perahan
na may structure at hindi ubos oras mo,

message mo lang ako at usap tayo.😊

16/12/2025

Baguhin na natin yung paniniwalang:
“Pwede kang umasenso, basta wag lang mas mataas sa amin.”

Because you know the feeling.
Yung tahimik ka lang nagwo-work hard,
pero parang may invisible ceiling
na binabantayan ng ibang tao.

They’re fine while you’re struggling.
They’re fine habang simple ka.
Pero the moment you start rising…
nagbabago yung atmosphere.
Nagkakaroon ng tension.
At bigla ikaw pa yung “nagbago.”

And it gets heavy.
Kasi hindi mo naman gustong magyabang.
Hindi mo gustong mang-iwan.
You just want a better life.
You just want your family to breathe
after years of carrying what most people never see.

Sa totoo lang.
Your growth is not the problem.
Yung mindset na ayaw kang lumampas,
yun ang matagal nang humihila sayo pababa.

Naalala ko nung season
na pinapaliit ko sarili ko just to keep the peace.
I would downplay my progress
para walang ma-offend.
Tinatago ko totoong ako
para walang magselos.

I called it humility,
pero fear pala yun.
Takot ma-judge.
Takot mauna.
Takot mawalan ng tao sa paligid ko.

Until God reminded me…
hindi mo kailangan magpaliit
para lang maging comfortable sila.
You don’t have to slow down
just so they don’t feel left behind.

And that truth cut deep,
pero doon ako lumaya.

✅Real friends celebrate your rise
✅ Totoong pamilya, ipinagpe-pray na lumayo mararating mo
❌ Yung ayaw kang lumampas, hindi talaga root for you

Do not dim your light just because someone else refused to grow.

16/12/2025

Kung may kapital ka na para sa negosyo,
basahin mo muna ito para di ka malugi...

Unang P ay ang Product 📦
Siguraduhin mo muna na may proven demand ang produktong ibebenta mo.

Paano mo malalaman?
Simple lang...

Maraming bumibili at maraming nagbebenta.

Kabaliktaran sa akala ng karamihan,
mas maganda kung marami kang kakumpitensya.

Bakit? Dahil ibig sabihin lang nun mataas ang demand ng produkto na yun.

Halimbawa, sabon 🧼

Napakaraming brand ng sabon diba?
At parang araw-araw may nadadagdag na bagong brand.
Yun ay dahil napakataas ng demand ng mga tao sa sabon.

Kaya wag ka magbenta dahil gusto mo lang yung produkto mo.
Magbenta ka dahil gusto ng customers mo yung produkto mo.
Dahil sila yung bibili, hindi ikaw.

Kaya kung gusto mong kumita,
wag mong i-base ang produkto sa hilig mo lang,
kundi sa pangangailangan ng mga tao.

Ikalawang P ay Promotion 📢
Dito madalas sumasablay ang mga baguhan sa negosyo.

Akala nila sapat na may maganda kang produkto,
tapos kusa nalang bibili ang mga tao.

MALI!

Kahit ikaw yung may pinakamagandang produkto sa buong sanlibutan,
kung wala o kokonti lang ang nakakaalam nyan,
malulugi ka rin dahil wala namang bibili.

Tatalunin ka pa nung hindi kagandahang produkto,
pero maraming nakakaalam.

May naiisip ka bang produkto na hindi naman kagandahan pero sikat na sikat? 🌟
Yun ang ibig kong sabihin.

Hindi sapat ang quality.
Kailangan may visibility.
Kailangan matutunan mo na ipakilala ang produkto sa maraming tao.
At yun ay sa pamamagitan ng social media.

Ikatlong P ay Process ⚙️
Ok, meron ka ng produkto at alam mo na kung paano ito ibenta.
Halimbawa meron ng interesadong bumili.

Ang process ang sasagot sa tanong na...
❓ Paano siya o-order?
❓ Paano mo ito ipapadala sa kanya?
❓ Paano niya babayaran yung inorder niya?
❓ Paano mo tatanggapin yung bayad?

Ito yung advantage ng negosyo sa panahon ngayon.
Advanced na ang technology natin.

Pwede mo ng i-automate ang proseso mula sa pag-order ng customer mo,
hanggang sa pag-deliver,
hanggang sa pagbabayad nila,
at hanggang sa matanggap mo yung perang binayad nila.

In short…
kapag may automated process ka,
kahit busy ka sa work,
kasama mo ang pamilya mo 👨‍👩‍👦,
o kahit tulog ka 😴,
may nagbebenta para sayo 24/7.

At ang pang-apat na P ay Profit 💰
Dito maraming naluluging negosyo.
Ang daming benta, pero walang natitira.

Bakit?

❌ Kasi hindi nila alam paano i-manage ng tama ang kinikita nila.

❌ Hindi nila alam kung paano paiikutin ng tama ang kapital nila para mas lumago.

❌ Hindi nila alam kung paano gamitin ang perang kinikita nila para ma-enjoy nila yung pera at hindi sila maging alipin ng negosyo nila.

❌ Hindi rin nila alam kung saan dapat i-invest ang pera nila para mas lumaki ang income nila 📈

Kaya madalas nai-scam sila.

Kaya bago ka pumasok sa kahit na anong klase ng negosyo,
siguraduhin mo muna na macheckan mo ang apat na Ps na ito:

📦 Product - Dapat may demand
📢 Promotion - Dapat marunong kang mag-market nito
⚙️ Process - Dapat automated para maging mabilis at madali
💰 Profit - Dapat alam mo yung tamang pag-manage ng kinikita ng negosyo mo para mas lalo mo itong mapalago

Kapag na-checkan mo ang 4Ps na ito,
siguradong hindi malulugi ang negosyong papasukin mo.

Kung iterested kanaman!

Mag-comment ka lang sa ilalim ng favorite food mo para maisend ko sayo sa messenger yung libreng webinar.

Sana maabutan mopa ako bago mawala. 👌

16/12/2025

Gift-giving season na…
Pero kelan mo ibibigay sa sarili mo yung chance to change?

As a breadwinner, ang dali magbigay sa iba.
Pero pag sarili mo na, bigla kang nagdo-doubt.
You show up for everyone.

You carry the weight silently.
Ikaw yung sandalan.
Ikaw yung inaasahan.

Pero deep inside, ikaw yung pinaka pagod.
Ikaw yung pinaka empty minsan.
And still, sinasabi mo lagi,

“Next year na lang.”
“Pag may extra.”
“Pag okay na lahat.”

Pero eto yung natutunan ko bilang provider.
Walang perfect timing.
Kailangan mo siyang gawin kahit hindi ideal.
Kasi kung hihintayin mo maging magaan,
hindi darating yun anytime soon.

I remember one December na sobrang drained ako.
Lahat may natanggap na gift.
Lahat masaya.
Pero ako, wala man lang binigay sa sarili kong growth.
Doon ko naisip, paano ako lalakas kung hindi ko tutulungan sarili ko?

✓ Hindi selfish mag invest sa sarili.
✓ Hindi luho ang growth.
✓ Hindi mo kailangan maghintay ng permiso para magbago.

Sometimes God speaks through your exhaustion.
“Anak, ikaw rin dapat alagaan mo.”

Kung gusto mong matutunan yung step-by-step
para makapag start ka ng dagdag na pagkaka-perahan,

message mo lang ako.😊

16/12/2025

Nagtatrabaho ka na lang para magbayad ng utang.

At minsan… hindi mo na alam kung kailan ka makakahinga.

Your salary comes in.

Pero parang dumadaan lang.

Ikaw lang yung nauubos.
Yung pagod, sayo lahat.

Yung pera, sandali lang.

Hindi mo na maalala kailan ka huling naging kampante.

There are nights na hindi mo sinasabi kahit kanino…
pero ramdam mo sa dibdib mo.

“Ganito na lang ba ako habang buhay?”

And what hurts the most is this.

You’re not lazy.
Hindi ka kulang magsikap.

Pero kulang talaga yung kinikita mo para sa bigat ng buhay ngayon.

Minsan tinatanong mo si Lord…
“Kailan magiging magaan ulit ang lahat?”

Pero may mga season talaga
na kailangan mong tumingin sa labas
ng nakasanayan mong paraan.

Kasi ito yung hindi mo agad nakikita…
Hindi utang ang pinaka-ugat ng problema.

Kundi yung income na hindi na humahabol sa pangangailangan mo.

Naalala ko rin dati…
If I kept waiting for the “right moment,”
mas mauuna pang maubos yung pag-asa ko
kesa dumating yung perfect timing.

✓ Normal ang matakot
✗ Pero masakit yung nananatiling stuck
✓ Utang nababayaran
✗ Pero oras na nawala, hindi na bumabalik

Pero eto ang katotohanan.

Minsan yung akala mong nakakahiya…
yun yung daan palabas ng pagkakabaon.

Kung gusto mong malaman

kausapin mo lang ako.😊

13/08/2025

Malapit na akong mag-27.

Kaya naisip ko:
What if I share everything I’ve learned so far?

The real lessons.

From being a batang pasaway dropout 4x
Nag titinda ng fries,
a nobody from a broken or broken family…

To building a life na dati,
pinapangarap ko.

Starting today at 7,22.Am,
I’m dropping 26 Lessons from 26 Years —
bite-size videos on business, leadership, relationships, faith, and purpose.

No hype. No BS.
Just real talk from my own experience.

If may gusto ka rin itanong or gusto mong ma-feature sa next lessons…
comment mo lang or message me. 😉

"Kahit mahirap, ang mahalaga ay may Diyos ka. 🙏"

Pero kung tunay kang maka-Diyos,
shouldn’t your life reflect discipline,
excellence, and steward?

Even the great men of God
had both faith and fortune.

David was a shepherd boy.
✅ But he became a king. Mayaman siya.

Joseph was sold as a slave.
✅ Pero naging second-in-command ng Egypt.
Mayaman siya.

Solomon asked for wisdom,
✅ and God gave him wealth and influence too.
Mayaman siya.

Pakisagot nito please. 🙏

Saan sa Biblia sinabi na dapat manatili kang
mahirap para makarating sa langit?

Kasi baka kaya hindi kapa umaasenso,
hindi dahil kulang ang sipag mo…
pero dahil sa maling paniniwala mo.

Here’s the truth:
✅ God is not glorified by wasted potential.
✅ Hindi mo kayang tulungan ang kapwa mo kung ikaw mismo kapos.
✅ Prosperity is not evil. It’s a tool in the right hands.

You can’t claim faith… while your beliefs are rooted in fear.

https://www.facebook.com/steven.andes.629165

13/08/2025

were good to the wrong person.
And now, you're the villain in their story.

Ang sakit, 'no?

You gave your best.
You stayed loyal.
You even sacrificed things they’ll never understand.

Pero sa huli... ikaw pa rin ang masama.

I’ve been there.

🚫 Tinulungan mong umangat magkaroon ng trabaho pero ang ending "ikaw pa masama"

🚫 Ginabayan mo noong walang-wala sya,
pero ang kwento nya sa iba, wala ka daw ambag sa buhay nya.

Kung ikaw 'to ngayon...
Yung ikaw na lang lagi ang masama sa kwento,
kahit ikaw naman yung totoong tumulong.

Tahimik kang nasasaktan.
Tahimik kang sinusuklian ng mali.
At kahit alam mong hindi mo deserve 'to…
pinipilit mong intindihin.

Just so you don’t become like them.

I see you.
And you’re not crazy.
You’re not too much.
And you’re not weak for walking away instead of getting even.

Here's what I learned:
✅ Betrayal isn’t always about lies. Sometimes it’s the truth they refuse to tell.
✅ The truth can be buried easily when the lie benefits their image.
✅ Kahit gaano ka kabuti noon, they’ll rewrite the story just to make themselves look clean.

You’re not the villain.
You were just part of a story they needed to edit to feel innocent.

https://www.facebook.com/steven.andes.629165

02/08/2025

Hindi porket kinilig ka, sya na yung "the one" 🤦

Here's what I mean...

Hindi lahat ng love story na nakakakilig ay healthy.
And not everyone who makes you smile is sent by God.

Minsan, kinikilig ka —
not because there’s deep connection…
but because may deep emptiness ka na gustong mapunan.

You just want to feel seen, heard and understood.

I’ve been there…

When I was single and lonely,
ang dali kong ma-attach
kahit konting pansin or effort lang.

I thought it was love.

Pero ang totoo?

It was just me trying to escape pain.

I even prayed to God:
“Lord, please… bigyan Mo na ako ng taong magmamahal sakin.”

But His answer wasn’t a person —
it was a question:

“Anak, mahal mo na ba sarili mo?”

And I paused.

Because deep down, I knew…
I wasn’t there yet.

So let me ask you:

Are you really looking for love?
Or are you just using it to escape from your wounds?

Because God doesn’t delay love to punish you.
He delays it to protect you — and prepare you for someone who knows your worth even on your worst days.

31/07/2025

Para sa mga trinaydor. 🗡️

You helped them.
You stood by them.
You gave them your loyalty…

Pero sa huli —
ikaw pa rin ang siniraan.
Ikaw pa ang lumabas na masama.
Mga back fighter.
Bag talikod mo tinatawanan ka.

That kind of betrayal cuts deep.

Not because you're weak…
but because you loved genuinely in a world
that doesn’t always know how to handle sincerity.

And I see you.

Yung tipong kahit nasaktan ka,
hindi mo pa rin nagawang gumanti.
Kahit pwede ka nang manira pabalik at gawin ang gusto mo
pinili mong manahimik.

Thank you.

Thank you for staying kind even when the
world gave you every reason to grow cold.

Thank you for choosing peace over pride.

And thank you for proving na hindi mo
kailangang sirain ang iba para lang maka-angat ka.

Here’s the truth…

Not everyone you help
wants to see you win.

Some only stick around
as long as they benefit from you.

Pero nung ikaw na ang nauuna…
they couldn’t handle your growth.

So they attacked your name
behind your back.

I had to learn this the hard way.

I helped someone rise —
to the point na mas malaki na ang kinikita niya
bilang sa bahay lang kaysa sa akin.

But in the end, “controller” daw ako.

Lahat ng success niya sa kanya lang daw galing.
Wala raw akong kinalaman.

I wasn’t asking for acknowledgment.
Kaya hinayaan ko na lang.

Pero ito yung malupit…

She apologized.
She even cried and love me.

Then just a few weeks later —
she betrayed me… out of nowhere.

I was stunned.
But I wasn’t surprised.

Because yes I already forgave her.
But that doesn’t mean I still trust her.

Looking back, here’s what I realized:
✅ You don’t need to prove anything to those who chose to betray you.
✅ It’s not your responsibility to explain your heart to someone who made it their mission to twist your story.
✅ God saw what they did — and trust me, He’s still in control.

If you’ve been quietly carrying this pain…
I just want you to know:

You’re not alone.
You’re not forgotten.
And you're still a good person — kahit trinaydor ka nila.

You don’t need revenge—your peace is already louder than their lies.

18/06/2025

Mas gusto kopa manood ng anime kisa sa mga telenovela, bukod sa mga valuable lesson nakaka pulutan kopa ng aral. 😇

30/05/2025

“Your burnout isn’t always from doing too much…
Sometimes it’s from forgetting who you really are.” 😔🧠

You’re not tired because of the work.
You’re tired because of the weight.

Of expectations.
Of old patterns.
Of trying to earn something that was already yours.

You show up.
You give your all.
Pero bakit parang kulang pa rin?

You pray...
You lead...
You won...

Pero deep down—parang may mali pa rin? 😞

Sa mentoring session ni Coach Juson, I was reminded of one quiet truth:

“I am enough. I’ve always been.”
But I’ve been moving as if I wasn’t.

Ang galaw ko lately…
Di na rooted sa dyos.
Rooted na siya sa takot. 😢

Here’s what I had to face:

✅ I am the solution to my own problems.
And every breakthrough… comes with a new battle.
If God is removing something,
it’s only because He’s making space for something greater. 🙌

✅ My fate depends on my faith.
Hindi madamot si lord.
Pero ako...
Ako yung naglalagay ng limit sa kayang ibigay ng Diyos. 🙏

✅ Extreme self-care is not luxury—it’s worship.
This body is His temple.
If I destroy it through pressure, stress, and burnout...
Anong saysay ng lahat ng tagumpay kopag kinuha kana ni kamatayan? 🕊️

Success without self-awareness is like driving a luxury car…

na wala palang preno.

You’ll look good from the outside…
but crash quietly inside. 💥

So the real question is:

What version of you is leading your life right now?
Yung driven by love?
O yung haunted by fear?

“You don’t need to do more to be enough.
You just need to remember who you were before you started proving yourself.”

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