11/06/2024
Emz Gayosa
AYOKO sanang ipost ang buong Book Review ni maam...Kasi Halos natumbok ni maam lahat ng Keypoints na gusto kong iparating sa lahat ng Babaeng Readers... But, still... Sa mga gusto talaga ng Quantum Change of Perspective, I believe this book deserves a space on your bookshelf..
Book Review by Maam Ma. Angelica Tecson-Corilla....
"This book 'LDR Doesn't Work Unless' is a Must Have lalo na sa mga seafarers' wives na kagaya ko. (Just got married 6 months ago from a 5-year LDR as bf-gf).
Dito sa book nato mas maiintindihan natin ang POV ng mga mister/Marino natin while onboard and on vacation.
This book had my heart when I read the poem "A Seafarer's Sentiments". I cried and was so touched na ganun din pala kalalim yung bigat na nararamdaman nila tuwing kailangan na nilang bumalik sa barko.
Naalala ko tuloy yung lyrics sa kantang Isang Linggong Pag Ibig "oh kay bilis ng iyong pagdating, pag alis mo'y sadyang kay bilis din.." 🥹
Ganun kasi yung feeling sobrang saya at excited pag alam mong pauwi na siya pero napakabilis lang ng oras pag pareho kayong masaya at magkasama hanggang sa dumating na nga yung oras na kailangan na ulit niyang bumalik ng barko para magtrabaho.
My husband was my first and only boyfriend pero everytime na aalis siya parang paulit-ulit kong nararanasan ang pagiging isang "heart broken" na kailangan mong mag "move on" from the routines that you had because ikaw nalang ulit mag isa. 😅 What a roller coaster of emotions of loving a seafarer.
Nahiwagaan din po ako dun sa Masculinity vs Femininity na kailangan din pala ipakita at iparamdam sa kanya yung feminine side or energy at hindi parang palagi nalang amazona 😂 and naguilty din sa ibang part especially dun sa mga common misunderstandings na nauuwi sa away.
Thank you din po sa mga tips on how to occupy ourselves while our husband is onboard like watching kdrama, lumabas with friends or relatives, etc. to boost our oxytocins.
Sobrang dami kong nalaman na possible POV ng aking "aquaman" and how to carefully communicate with each other for us to thrive in our LDR.
I will do my best to seek first to understand him, then, to be understood.
Maraming salamat po sa book na 'to. This is a big help for us to thrive in our LDR. More power and God bless!"
Credits to:
Corilla Couple for the amazing photo ❤️
SeamanLifestyle Apparel
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