10/18/2023
Rhys(ie) is the kid who doesn't panic, has a plan, and keeps a watchful eye. If you don't know this sibling then you are most likely like Liam and I. We charge hell with water pistols, we cry when we are happy and sad, and the scariest that we can be is when we are blindly angry. Rhys will politely caution you oh your walk should he see a branch or obstacle on the projected path, I don't always even see the branch while tumbling with it on my way over the edge of an emotional cliff. Now we can fly in the midst of chaos and we will even drive blinded by fog - but, seeing it before it has happened is just NOT our way. It isn't a commitment to a defect it is just the difference in our ways. When Rhys was in Kindergarten (some grace is requested as yall know how I can be) he forgot his lunch - it was the first week, Liam was in my sister care and I was headed back to work at theAMP and realized he had forgot his lunch... immediately I began to tumble... in my mind there was this baby who didn't have a plan, didn't have his family, didn't have his food... I was melting fast - there were meetings I had to attend so I was left watching the clock and fantasizing about how he was probably going to be a mess. (Now, step out of the kitchen with me for a moment: it isn't lost on me that this isn't about a little boy and his lunch, I know it is me, I am the issue - it kind of has become the constant in these kinds of situations)... rushing through the "whatever's, sure's, ok, on it's, you bet's, nope's I got nothing to add's" I rushed off to Elm Tree only to wall in to him having a lunch try sitting with his new friends enjoying his day. I also, once forgot him at school - yep just forgot to go get him - and he was in the office were he had asked for a "drink and maybe a snack"... the point is either way... - over planned, over felt, overly explained, or under informed... that boy has always been 1/2 a step a head of where I think he is. Now, at 13 the pick up plan we had agreed on went absolutely NOTHING like planned and yet Rhys pivoted, re aligned and took care of his business. I stressed because of all the "Unsolved Mysteries" I watched and he got home because of all the mistakes I keep making - š ā¤ļøš -clvR Acres