Leigh Anne O'Connor, IBCLC, LCCE

Leigh Anne O'Connor, IBCLC, LCCE Lactation Consultant, providing personalized in-home consultations, virtual and phone consultations

I have never liked nor embraced the Fed is best phrase - this explains exactly whyhttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CV4FFn...
05/02/2026

I have never liked nor embraced the Fed is best phrase - this explains exactly why

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Reminder:

Breast is best is marketing lingo that came from formula companies when they were required to indicate that their product is a replacement for human milk, not superior to human milk. They choose that language for a reason, best seems like overachieving rather than normal, or standard. That helps them market their product as being more accessible and realistic than human milk. Human milk isn't some kind of overachieving out of reach high bar, it is normal.

The "breast is best" phrase isn't helpful, it is intended to be emotional manipulation and is part of a marketing tactic for formula.

We can share information, teach techniques, and provide meaningful support without emotionally manipulating people, without using the jargon formula companies want us to use, and without bullying.

More importantly, we make a difference when we address the barriers and systems that make it seem like feeding your baby human milk is going above and beyond instead of supporting breastfeeding as normal.

With curiosity and kindness, we can meet people where they are and that's where real support happens.

Judging people does not inspire them. Shame does not connect and lead to meaningful change. Bullying does not motivate. All that does is create division and often lead to difficulties being hidden for fear of experiencing judgment, shaming, and bullying.

Kindness makes information accessible, empathy makes support impactful.

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04/10/2026

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She was staring at hundreds of vials of monkey milk when she noticed something that didn't make sense.
The numbers kept showing the same pattern — and the pattern wasn't supposed to exist.
Katie Hinde was a young researcher at a California primate center, deep in data from rhesus macaque mothers. She was measuring fat content, protein levels, calcium concentrations. Routine science. Expected answers.
Then the data broke the rules.
Mothers nursing sons were producing denser, richer milk — higher in fat and protein. Mothers nursing daughters were producing greater volumes of milk, with elevated calcium to support faster skeletal development in females.
The milk wasn't the same. It was being customized — by the mother's body — for each infant.
She ran the numbers again. The pattern held. Across more than 250 mothers. Over 700 samples.
She brought it to colleagues. The response was familiar to anyone who has ever discovered something inconvenient:
"Measurement error. Statistical noise. Probably coincidence."
Katie kept going anyway.
And the deeper she looked, the stranger — and more beautiful — it became.
She discovered that younger, first-time mothers produce milk with higher levels of cortisol, the body's stress hormone. Infants drinking that milk develop differently — more alert, more reactive. The milk wasn't just feeding a body. It was informing a nervous system about the kind of world it was entering.
Then she found the mechanism that changed everything.
When a baby nurses, tiny traces of saliva travel back into the breast tissue. That saliva carries biological information — signals from the infant's immune system, evidence of any pathogens the baby has encountered, early warning of illness.
The mother's body reads those signals.
And the milk responds — flooding with targeted immune cells and antibodies designed to fight whatever the baby's saliva revealed. Threats the mother herself has never personally encountered. Her immune system building a defense for someone else's battle.
When the baby recovers, the milk returns to normal.
This was not nutrition being delivered. This was a conversation — one refined across 200 million years of evolution, happening silently, invisibly, with every single feeding.
And medicine had barely noticed.
When Katie searched the research databases, she found something that stopped her cold: there were twice as many published scientific studies on erectile dysfunction as there were on breast milk composition — the first food every human being who ever lived consumed.
The most ancient biological relationship in mammalian history. Functionally invisible to science.
She decided to change that.
In 2011, she launched a blog called "Mammals Suck...Milk!" Within a year, it had crossed one million views. In 2017, her TED Talk reached millions more. In 2020, she appeared in the Netflix documentary Babies. Today, at Arizona State University's Comparative Lactation Lab, her research is reshaping neonatal care, guiding formula development, and transforming how we care for the most fragile premature infants in NICUs around the world.
What she uncovered in those vials of monkey milk wasn't just a new fact about nutrition.
It was proof that the first relationship every human being has — mother and infant — is not passive delivery. It is active dialogue. Ancient intelligence. A biological conversation so sophisticated, so responsive, so alive, that we spent generations looking directly at it without seeing it.
We weren't just feeding babies.
We were talking to them.
We just didn't know how to listen.

My only issue with this article is the phrase “extended breastfeeding.”It almost diminishes the point of the article - b...
03/24/2026

My only issue with this article is the phrase “extended breastfeeding.”
It almost diminishes the point of the article - breastfeeding a toddler is biologically normal - “extended” makes it sound exceptional as opposed to normal.

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02/09/2026

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💗 Public breastfeeding shouldn’t be controversial. Even though public breastfeeding is legal in many places (including all 50 states in the US), many people still experience shame and stigma when trying to breastfeed publicly.

No one should have to hide in a public bathroom in order to feed their hungry baby. Parents and their children have the right to feed and be fed anywhere, anytime. ✨

I want to be clear here that there should also be NO moral judgment given to how people choose to feed their children. Formula and breastfeeding are both valid. You have to do what’s best for you, your baby and your life 💗

Image description: Digital illustration of a Black mother breastfeeding an infant. She appears as a goddess, and is shirtless aside from a sheer cape with constellations. The text reads, ‘normalize public breastfeeding.’

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