Vanessa's kitchen 101

06/07/2025

A lot of women aren’t chasing love, they’re chasing lifestyle. If he’s rich, they’ll gladly be wife number 5, side chick 3 or backup plan 2. Dignity gets blurry when status is involved.

05/02/2024

I survived depression Zambia

Today I felt like sharing this with someone whose thinking of giving up.
In the year 2000, after the loss of my father, my mother courageously led our family back to Zambia. Starting afresh in a new country as a single parent to three children was an indescribable challenge. We settled in Chelston, and those who remember the circumstances can join me in praising God for His grace, very few people know this story and now I can look back and laugh🤣.

We faced years of adversity, transitioning from using a pitlatrin for 10 years of those squatting positions 😩😅to experiencing the constant shuffle of homes – from Ndola to Choma to Lusaka,another story for another day 😅 . Changing schools almost every two years became a norm who even goes to 8 or 9 different schools in 12 years... 🤔, and Catholic nuns played a pivotal role in sponsoring my education (a story for another day).

During those moments when a pitlatrin was our reality, I vividly recall telling God that I would strive to be worth something, to make Him and my mother proud. Today, amidst the twists and turns life has thrown my way, there are moments of frustration and tears. I question why things don't always go as planned, forgetting the myriad of blessings that surround me, mwelesa mulenjelelakofye 😔.

But in those challenging times, I hold onto the promise I made to God and to myself. Despite the hurdles, I am grateful for the journey. There's a resilience that comes from living through the uncertainties, from pitlatrins to changing homes and schools. It's a testament to the strength within.

Even on days when I feel deserving of more, I strive to find the sincerity and strength to be grateful. Life's challenges may test us, but the journey from a pitlatrin to a place of gratitude is a testament to the resilience we carry within us.

Copied from EmmanuEmmanuella Musonda

30/01/2024

P**n kills soul
P**n kills drive
P**n kills mind
P**n kills focus
P**n kills reality
P**n kills energy
P**n kills purpose
P**n kills relations
P**n kills confidence
P**n kills masculinity

30/01/2024

Are you matured enough to date someone without a front tooth?

23/01/2024

ONLY LEGENDS WILL REMEMBER THIS ADVERT

Uncle: Wamona Bwalya weh mwipwa wandi, Kuno twishile eko batila ati ni kumatebeto, according to our tradition and culture. Filya ulemona palya pali cilemba apa pali cibwabwa, elyo iyi ni ilya mwe balumendo mutila ati Africa polony kuli ifwe ni chikanda.

Bwalya: Uncle this gram looks great man, I and I gonna graze.

Uncle: Wecinangwa weh. Nani akufundile icisungu camusango uyu? Only cows graze. Humans beings eat! And don’t call it gram, this is food do you understand?

Bwalya. take it easy uncle, so what is going on now?

Uncle: What they are going to do now is wash your hands and your feet.

Bwalya: Cool man, can they do my dread as well?

Uncle: How did this decent girl pick on you? You are embarrassing me. You are acting completely useless! They are going to use Geza. I think there is something good to be said about this.

Bwalya: Uncle soap is soap is soap man. Now tell me, would Haile Selassie have used this Geza?

Uncle: ailee who?

Bwalya: Selassie I, the lion

29/12/2023

A man volunteered for more than 6 years as a COG,he was being left out for all recruitment....at 37 years old he was left out again,he felt hopeless wealthless he thought this world has nothing better to offer him.....he committed su***de yesterday

23/12/2023

Happy holidays to you too

My darling today is season giveaway $150 dollars $25 each 6 people 🎁 posting winners at night 😊 happy holidays season my darlings✌🏾

14/12/2023

ME: So chilibwa?

YO-MAPS: Banipoka CRU CRU ...

14/12/2023

What's that one song you could listen to like this🌝